My confidence comes from

 Diplomatic Academy of the genius, the youngest station CCTV financial anchor, a visiting scholar at Yale University, Rui's new book chapter , in particular, the following passage which I agree more: comparison. as long as they are in constant progress, even if the progress made is negligible, and also his victory, and no one can take away. , it is to their success today and their results were compared with yesterday, so it has a self-confidence. This is eight years, in their own progress, work performance is better than a year one year, returning only when faced by the newly competitive market, facing the brilliant achievements past colleagues issued line Writers come from
Abstracts February 17, 2009 enter the China Central Television, became the youngest financial anchor. In 2005 to 2006 in the United States Visiting Scholar at Yale University. current doubts and self-doubts, but also contains a recent global financial turmoil spread to think.
once invited me to a university lecture, I asked students a question: As a Chinese, you have a sense of pride in it? unanimously answered yes! I then ask: What in the end what makes you have such pride in it? be answered is the Yangtze River, the Great Wall, but also to answer the rapid economic development, 5,000 years of civilization, text, Olympics, Rockets l empty ... ... I then ask: If the early morning wake up, you suddenly find yourself become a Filipino, you will be proud to own? Or, you become a Rwandan living in Africa, experienced genocide, often hungry, this time, you can confidently face the world? suddenly, the whole hall was silent. I can understand that, the students had never thought about it from this angle, Most people do not seek from the self-confidence; if the nature of self than from its own characteristics or things to get, then you can not comfortably to understand world issues, national issues and issues relating to self. self-confidence is the source of what is most essential When I first came to Yale University, classmates and introduce themselves to each other, one student from the Philippines impressed me. He is a former Philippine Secretary of Energy, the star pupil of President Arroyo. He describes his time, explain the particularly detailed: by traces of multi-national cultural influences. Because my country, my home, my poor to despise me. he was able to calmly and objectively described as history is a kind of courage, confidence is an absolutely transcendent.
2007 year, I participated in the Beijing Hongzhi New Year's party classes. the story of the children each have their own economic difficulties in not only failed to take away their smiles and happiness, but created their superhuman perseverance and hard work, simple attitude and personality, they experienced the ordeal more appreciative. in their corner of the classroom, like a hill full of empty Coke bottles and beverage cans, these are the drinks from the drink they openly to other classes and schools to review. These waste products so that they save a few hundred dollars out of the class fee.
they are economically weak, but it is strong on character and ability. in them can not see the child's tender floating, but I can see a lot of interviewing around the world have the habit of success. they learn calligraphy, pipa practice, their actions showed a sense of confidence.
we are all equal human beings, have the right to pursue happiness. Since the objective existence of differences, we should be comfortable with. a person brave enough to face reality and persist in their pursuit and unremitting efforts, is a strong, is a winner. in the personality of people around the world are equal - the real confidence should come from deep in the heart of this belief.

Chinese family education in China, many families do not develop self-confidence in the environment, parents do not respect the equal status of children. We can order Children are the future of the entire physical and mental dedication to go out, but we always want to include in our children's future track and framework, the design of the child to grow according to the parents, not according to their own preferences to choose to develop, it is not respected. < br> either in America or in Britain, each will always see a phenomenon in the restaurant, parents do not place their children a la carte, but let the children go to points. children directly to the waiter said: two slices of ham, eggs give birth to a little, add lettuce, tomato slices can add three. , did not like. However, given full freedom, let him go point, he will not. Our family education, school education in the country has sent batches of society is not strong-minded, but critical life people. have an English well said: .

confidence of Chinese people in the international affairs, relations with other countries and the relationship, if it was intended demonstration of self-confidence, respect, and often too far. a person's self-confidence and self esteem, and independent character is revealed to nature.
Lu Xun was speaking, Chinese people do not own arrogance, there is a collective arrogance. Chinese people are backed by a great country, ancient civilization, to find the meaning of self. often say that I am a Chinese, rather than that I am a person. often that we have ancient civilization, how great my ancestors, often have some of today's China and the world does not meet the actual knowledge of, and easy to order develop based on arrogance. and this arrogance is the lack of factual basis, and once suffered what twists and turns in combat, once it becomes extremely low self-esteem.
's self-confidence is not by emphasizing the history, emphasizing the heritage, or even completely stressed something of their own come. how about the four great inventions, there are 400 great invention what? Please take a look in the mirror himself, from his coat, jacket, pants, to shirts, underwear, up and down, not what we invention. So who invented a simple comparison how much does not make sense. Taishan fell down the mountain, Huangshan Guilaibukan. but I know in the world there is more spectacular than the Huangshan, more majestic, just because the world has There Yellowstone National Park, Mount Kilimanjaro, Mount Fuji, I had low self-esteem?
we do not rely on history, heritage, how amazing does not depend on GDP growth rate, we can pursue the goal to make his own happiness. As long as there is a conviction: the world's people do not because of different backgrounds, different cultures, whether there is a long history, not because of population size, land area the size of the difference in confidence on. The most essential source of self-confidence is the belief of equality, I believe themselves. We do not care too much about Americans, Europeans, Japanese, how to evaluate us, do not ask them every time, to see how our country, how they can not see that they do. to look to their own self-confidence may be more long-term and solid.

and compare his own self-confidence of Chinese people often comes from inequality. your monthly salary of 3,000 yuan, my monthly salary of 10,000 yuan, so I'm confident; you biked to work, I drive to work, so I'm confident; Honda you drive to work, I drive a BMW to work, so I'm confident; you drive a BMW 320 to go to work, I drive a BMW 750 to go to work, so I'm confident. In Europe, the majority of Mercedes-Benz, BMW vehicles such Jibie tail, and not common in China the > This comes from the inequality of self-confidence, self-esteem can be changed in an instant. opening S600 S500's opening encounter, and will encounter open Rolls Royce, Ferrari's, yachts and private sector will encounter open aircraft, and finally with the Saudi prince to buy the A380 Awali comparison of private, self-confidence will be completely lost.
If you really want to compare, you should compare his own, with their own progress and achievements with their performance yesterday comparison, and then be able to predict the future with their results for comparison. as long as they are in constant progress, even if the progress made is negligible, and also his victory, and no one can take away.
Similarly, the Chinese Do not Comparison of excessive foreign countries, China should be compared with his past, we did a lot of problems to solve, we do have a lot of problems, identify gaps, identify problems, single-minded go its own way, let the world talk. This Chinese people should have confidence.
2008   10 months, in an academic exchange meeting in Shanghai, I have a statement:
to compare China and other countries in two ways, one is horizontal , parallel; one is vertical, vertical. If to compare with the horizontal, yes, China does have many places there is insufficient compared to simply not in the same language. However, the vertical perspective, with today's China Comparison of China 30 years ago, even 10 years ago to compare with, with 5 years ago, China and now more, or to compare with last year, you can find great changes, which is China's progress. Westerners habits horizontal comparison, China is still backward, many Chinese are dissatisfied with, once you change a point of view, vertically vision of development, with the perspective of history, you can find new China.