Do not leave me alone user experience

 If the just saw one of the swing case), it is intended to write SNS is appalling, and decided to write this article!
I have said before: Community sites (particularly SNS) has never been a lack of natural person registered! but the lack of people who left these natural ability up! we can see SNS sites spend a lot of publicity drawing tens of thousands to tens of thousands of registered users, but hundreds of thousands of users every day face the loss of small poor retention rate! So why such a high churn rate it ?
each person has their own reasons for leaving: Some people left because they can not acquaintances; for advertising and curious people came to see and left; someone is taking the wrong path come and leave quickly; was not suited to site because Cultural and leave; was fun because they do not feel left; was found like the content; was because of her round and leave no reply; someone is writing a blog because of his view that no one, no one comment; was because Upload your photo did not look, and no one replies; was created because his group does not join; was initiated because of their activities are not participants; was because someone else's blog comments, others do not Diao own; was because look at the pictures, others do not adopt their own; was because someone else to join the group, others do not, and their discussion; have recognized for participating in the activities of others have been excluded; it was because someone else myself as a transparent person, depending on your not seen, are The reason is: allow users to generate a sense of loneliness.
Perhaps these will not occur simultaneously, but one of the factors may lead to the departure of new users; to know that we speak of today's young users can all have weight at home , the whole family around to speak for itself; to know today's users are also mixed in the number of sites, and have their own territory, to speak in their own circles are those who have heard of; to know our users to the site is not intended to suffer, but to find and tell their identity, however, our website designers to our new registered users what is it?! mm from a certain degree, I think the 80% around the site is almost in the abuse of our beloved users (abuse of our god), and even how many sites are not considered products specifically designed for new users.
how to avoid the above situation, to avoid user-generated solitary flu? take a small example, a Web site the user visited the blog for all the users list them all, this is a very good feedback, so that bloggers feel his blog is one to see, how many people read their own blog, who saw the film blog, etc., so that bloggers will see a closer look at the blog's users, and from each other, through the contents of awareness on; but most of those who visit the site and is not listed (or is required , and himself to himself in a lonely state. Another Lie Zi, a Web site as long as you have registered, you will find immediately familiar to people, and most of the site even if you use search it is difficult to find an already registered acquaintances ...... actually have to completely solve the