Ten classic law of love happy

 First Rule: Do not look to He (she), we can sit back and relax.
However, when we do not have long thought, why do we have to unwittingly omitted a premise: Who am I that I should do something for their lives? ask ourselves, can not help themselves shocked, we pursued to find that forget to be their own responsibility. look around us, often find reliable people demanding others, often their own people are unreliable, because they are not reliable, and only then staring in each other's eyes upon , ask for this, ask for that. This is indeed a presumptuous request, we can not rely on their own, what other reliable power to require it?
not to abstain from their own lives, because that is self-cancel and self-denial and self-denial of a self-cancellation and the person is really nothing loveliness, in others, she is a burden. people's lives have been heavy bear, who will be happy to be back an extra burden? Or their take up their own destiny, it is your right is your obligation. When you become your most reliable people, more people will be cast to pay tribute to you, either on their own or others, you are a worthy and reliable people.
Law II: Do not make the classic
gigantic depletion of the imagination with a modern fleet rusting shipwreck salvage it.
In fact, in real life, we are often troubled by such acts as, desperate myth in the past, deny the present. in fact, think about , have become the myth of the myth, but because of the time barrier, so that it can not restore the true colors of history. If the clock back, past return, we may be surprised: classic like! as Prince Charming Prince Charming, perhaps because of his bad leg, Snow White as Snow White, perhaps because she had too much paint powder hh
Since we are all ordinary people, then do not make sense of the past deliberately created heaven and earth into the myth of love it, not the classic of love! classic love belongs only to the classical era, and modern classic love is just a commercial speculation, just like the torrential our Tisi's Hollywood studios, however, it is hundreds of millions of dollars in huge profits.
comfortable with all the defects we love it, to make up the classic passion into the creation of tomorrow's power, perhaps we can manufacture The only classic.
law of three: my hands were too focused on their own
Chinese parents will, too concerned about the opinions of others, in many people's love life, the love, Kushou I's no love, so much tragedy has happened. In the beginning met, both sides agreed, regardless of the attitude of the other parents, we are not able to pay out of his own free. because if we give up self- , listen to others, the bitter tragedy of life is destined to be with us. We have too much accustomed to see a similar tragedy, in love, only the true masters of our own, in addition, the views of all who can only play the role of reference , say that in them, hear their but in us. to be mentally prepared to do so, have any other parent's objections, are never give up.
notes, a life but others are from the are just a slave, but a slave not deserve love, even if she used this servile Love Heroes?
Law Four: Do not force a man a knight
Ladies first, this is the law of civilized practice. Correspondingly, men should become a knight, he rich, but also handsome, He must be skilled in household chores, but also ready to sacrifice hh careful scrutiny, however, feel that a great problem, did it not too flattering a man now? If a man can conquer the world, women are not there is sympathy for the weak? men should abide by the chivalrous nature, but it should be, as the case may be, chivalry should follow the principle of equality between the sexes. And advocating strong and independent, modern woman, should also think about how consistent system out of thousands of vulnerable psychological, the dependence Thought thrown into the Pacific Ocean. then perhaps you will find, men like the female beauty, is Coexistence is more than just a children handing the man!
Law Five: birds failing human
always want their lover than he was tall and strong, fatigue can have a can rely on, can be spoiled, thick shoulders, this by people one in the blue sky birds fly it? less than men in physical strength in addition to, other areas, women a little better than poor men.
birds by people who care everywhere in the cage, perhaps the most solid cage, is your dependency, it is better to return to your own freedom of flying in the sky.
law of six: love, nothing to do with roses
a pair of lovers in love ten years like a day, to each other, almost not trying to valentine day, not to send flowers to each other, but in their hearts, will always have a bunch of brightly colored roses in bud in full bloom. Although people laughed at the pace they are too behind the times, but their stride. the number of broken marriages of friends, How many roses withered, their feelings are as secure as ever. Love in the heart on the line, do a bunch of flowers there is no life, really better than a fresh mind is more valuable? too much emphasis on form, inevitably ignore the most essential of love content. Who said this, the true love itself is a rose, rose easily fade tangible and intangible rose but never brilliant.
law of seven: do not pursue one step
young men and women, who does not love to hold a Fan romantic ideas? middle-aged men and women, who do not sigh heart sky high, life than thin paper it? romantic idea right, but reality does not in our will. Gold can not be pure, human No one is perfect, how can a person then waiting for you ready? Or sit back and enjoy the luxury to give it, true love depend on you to shape. life, we encounter the object is neither a perfect nor a waste, We and our people are semi-finished products meet, and later how to see our own. Remember, the face should start to make up for shortcomings, and not turn away. believe in the saying is an old saying: Faith will move mountains. Let more than your lover by some shape, lift your mood, keep some tolerance.
really love to understand that the success of truth: love is hard to learn, not easy to enjoy.
Law Eight: Love is not blind The
said to love God is blind, only value now, and never consider tomorrow. In actual fact, true love has a pair of eyes, the other is not right for you? is not going to tell you to grow old? values do not hh worth it all to pay at the beginning of life need to be considered, it is true, love is contain some irrational elements, but in the final analysis, love is rational, it can not rule out the value judgments.
sight to love, touched on the discharge, it is the story, said.
Law Nine: do more spiritual beauty
We often ask each other, you love me? face will be aging, the loss of property, talent will decline , water the same time will conquer all, that time young, beautiful, rich we will have nothing. life is gentle, because it gives people young and beautiful face; life is cruel, it will let unconsciously stripping a person to do Qianhua.
beauty so came into being, but the beauty is limited, it can cover the aging, but can not stop aging. in order to delay aging, the best way is to do more a game, go to a strange place alone, some battles hh this point is simple, but both men and women, are not only to young to understand. spiritual beauty shall be as early as possible.
law of ten: love him,
every day thinking about him a free man, living together with him, let him be your day is full of heart are almost impermeable to water hh we think this is the Besides, who can not limit him, and imposed him. If we let him follow us everywhere in everything, then we must be wrong to hold when the love. possession and love, easy to confuse, but also easy to distinguish: is deprived of possession , love is to give; possession is the reins, love is grassland; possession of a fish net, love is the sea; possession was closed, and love is open. for the occupancy joy, the joy that only a cage; is not occupied and painful, It can only be a chain of pain.
learn to love someone like it, do not try to hold him, to interfere, to back him all the freedom of it, including the freedom does not love you, including the love of others Free! true love and freedom the same, the concept of slavery and slave-owners will, act contrary to love.